tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467183609656702601.post6832538577745965925..comments2013-09-14T05:36:12.796-07:00Comments on The Blunt Instrument: Doing Right When It Feels Wrongdede blunthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04427267256703697625noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467183609656702601.post-55385409078695581092011-02-09T17:38:06.418-08:002011-02-09T17:38:06.418-08:00I think that black women were taught that doing fo...I think that black women were taught that doing for ourselves was an act of selfishness instead of some much needed self love. We are so much more comfortable doing for others. <br /><br />I can't wait to truly be free of people's opinions and expectations and to live a life of wholeness and integrity. I'm glad to have some company on that journey.dede blunthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04427267256703697625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467183609656702601.post-38099360947146562332011-02-09T13:22:52.204-08:002011-02-09T13:22:52.204-08:00I know exactly what you mean. We don't really...I know exactly what you mean. We don't really love ourselves but live our lives below our destined standard of greatness. Thanks for sharing and helping me realize that I've got to take a good hard look at myself and be brave enough to admit the behavior and change it. The Word says "and you shall know the truth, and the truth will make you free." I am on my way of being set free from from a lie so I can experience life as it should be.HeavenSCenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03606584515056737692noreply@blogger.com